Mother sparks debate after surprising family with secret baby
A mother has sparked a debate after revealing that she surprised her family with a secret baby and detailed how she kept her pregnancy a secret.
In a recent video posted to TikTok, Victoria, @canadiangirl_2, could be seen walking up the porch of her family’s home, as the text reads: “When you keep your pregnancy a secret and show up with a baby.”
As she walked into the house, while holding her baby in a carrier, she said “surprise” to one of her family members. In response, the relative said: “You’re kidding?”
Victoria proceeded to walk into the house and said “surprise” once again, before it was revealed to another family member that he was being introduced to “his new granddaughter”.
The clip concluded with the grandfather talking to a group of children, as he had a confused look on his face, seemingly due to the reveal of the secret baby.
Victoria reiterated the purpose of her video in the caption, writing: “We kept our baby a secret from family and surprised them with a baby.”
In different clip, Victoria documented herself introducing her child to his grandmother, who could be seen jumping up and down, with an excited look on her face while meeting the baby.
A third video also showed Victoria’s sister-in-law being introduced to the newborn. After hilariously asking where the baby “came from,” the relative went on to congratulated the parents.
@canadiangirl_2 we kept our baby a secret from family and surprised them with a baby. #secretbaby #surprisebaby #secretpregnancyreveal #babyboy #Shoppers60 #alberta #tiktokbaby
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As of 18 August, the three videos have more than 7.6 views combined, with some viewers questioning Victoria for keeping her baby a secret.
“Why do people keep it a secret from their families? They want to take part in the excitement of pregnancy too. I would be upset if I were to miss that,” one wrote.
“Everybody should do what makes them happy, but I would feel betrayed, not trusted,” another added.
A third person wrote: “Congratulations on your new family member. But as a mom. I would have been upset.”
However, many viewers also praised Victoria’s decision and continued to congratulate her.
@canadiangirl_2 When you keep your baby a secret and surprise his grandma the day after he's born #surprise #surprisebaby #tiktokbaby #Shoppers60 #alberta #babyboy #secretbaby
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“I want to do this when I go into labour and just show up with the baby lol. This is so cute,” one wrote.
“People need to realise, a pregnancy is mum and dad’s thing to share first and foremost. They obviously enjoyed their pregnancy in peace and love,” another added.
Other viewers detailed how they chose to keep their pregnancies a secret as well, along with some of the judgement they received from family members because of it.
“I hid my pregnancy and everyone got mad like I owed them the knowledge of me being pregnant , so now they don’t get to see my baby.”
In a follow-up video, Victoria said that while she “wore baggy” clothes when keeping her pregnancy a secret, she didn’t “hide from [her] family”.
@canadiangirl_2 Replying to @dhunter3106 answering the why and how. #tiktokbaby #naturalbirth #surprise #Shoppers60
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Regarding why she didn’t tell her family about her baby, Victoria detailed how she’d had “five miscarriages that were pretty traumatic”. She also had “four viable pregnancies that were hard on her,” which she did tell her loved ones about.
She also prefaced that she wanted “privacy” throughout her recent pregnancy and didn’t want to be “constantly messaged,” before noting that no one was “hurt or upset” when they found out about the baby.
The Independent has reached out to Victoria for comment.
