IWD 2021: Quit the Cinderella syndrome and empower 👯yourself and other women
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Isn’t it amazing there’s a day specially dedicated to women? 8 March marks the International Women's Day, a day that according to www.internationalwomensday.com, “... is a global day celebrating the social, economic, cultural and political achievements of women.” It is also a day that calls for greater women equality.
So what does 8 March mean for women in Singapore? Admittedly, we have it good here as women. The entry barriers to achieving the top ranks of a corporate hierarchy or attaining the highest academic achievement are so much lower than women in many other countries. No one will blink an eye when we see a female doctor or lawyer, take cues from a female CEO, or do a double-take when a female wears pants or drives a car – roles or acts not necessarily acceptable for women in countries like India, Dubai and more.
It is thanks to trailblazing predecessors like Simone de Beauvoir, Amelia Earhart, Frida Kahlo and many more who have paved the way for us. Nevertheless, we are wife, mother, daughter, employee or entrepreneur all rolled into one. Many often find themselves doing the second shift the moment they shed our corporate selves at home. Outside and inside our homes, invisible barriers abound even in modern Singapore. Pay inequality, gender discrimination, getting the males at home to step up in their contribution towards household chores and childcare – Singaporean women do have our fair share of issues to address. Not just that, the tendency for women to second-guess ourselves and having an imposter syndrome, despite our achievements, is real.
On International Women's Day today, let us celebrate being a woman and becoming the best versions of ourselves and support other women while at it. Here are 3 ways you can do so.
1) Quit the Cinderella syndrome
Tjin Lee, founder and Managing Director of an agency, summarises it well in her Valentine’s Day post on Instagram, “I buy my own jewellery and flowers. Sure it’s wonderful to receive gifts, but I learned in my 30s to stop wishing, waiting for people to second-guess my heart’s desires, and start doing things for myself❤️”. Check out her post below.
Indeed, it is time for women to shed the Cinderella syndrome, where Prince Charming rescues us from all our troubles or buy us that piece of jewellery we’ve been coveting. We say, go ahead and get it for ourselves. Why wait when we can afford it ourselves? There's nothing like buying ourselves a piece of fine jewellery or luxury handbag to commemorate a milestone or to pat ourselves on the back for an achievement we have worked hard for. Go on, celebrate your milestones unabashedly.
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2) Educate and empower yourself
Becoming the best versions of ourselves require hard work. One of the ways to do so is to empower ourselves with the right knowledge. These books are chockful of life lessons, advice and guidance whether you are looking to becoming more assertive, finding yourself or hoping to lend a hand to someone else. Let these true-life tales of women become your inspiration to becoming the woman you are meant to be.
Becoming Bulletproof: Life Lessons from a Secret Service Agent by Evy Poumpouras, S$19.26
There's nothing more empowering than taking your own safety and happiness, into your own hands. Former secret service agent Evy shares rare behind-the-scenes glimpses of her former life protecting the President of United States. At the same time, she explores the psychology of human behaviour and teaches you the negotiation strategies used by the best negotiators. Learn how you can heighten your own instincts to protect yourself and your loved ones in sticky situations. A gem of a book to self-empowerment!
Becoming: A Guided Journal for Discovering Your Voice, hardcover by Michelle Obama, S$32.29
You have read Michelle Obama’s Becoming and wish to make something of yourself like she did. Now you can, with a little help from Michelle herself! This guided journal will show you the way to your self-discovery through 150 inspiring questions and quotes crafted by Michelle. Nothing beats having a mentor on your way to self-discovery.
The Moment of Lift: How Empowering Women Changes the World by Melinda Gates, S$19.75
Speaking out for women empowerment, Melinda Gates shares the stories of women she has met during her travels. Backed by data, Melinda brings a sense of urgency towards issues that require our immediate attention like extreme gender inequality. She boldy challenges the status quo in a bid to improve society. “Because when you lift up women, you lift up humanity.” Be inspired and join her as women across the world lift one another up.
Invisible Women: Exposing Data Bias in a World Designed for Men [Paperback] by Caroline Criado Perez, S$19.75
In the woke society that we are living in today, we would know by now that there are countless gender inequalities happening around the world. But to what extent? Author Caroline compiles an impressive variety of case studies and new research from across the globe illustrating the hidden ways in which women are forgotten and its profound impact.
The Book of Gutsy Women: Favourite Stories of Courage and Resilience by Hillary Rodham Clinton and Chelsea Clinton, $46.56
Written together by mother-daughter duo, Hillary and Chelsea Clinton, the book aims to show the women their favourite stories of gutsy women who have demonstrated courage against all odds. This book is perfect for girls and women craving inspiration in the midst of male dominance around the world.
A Woman Makes a Plan: Advice for a Lifetime of Adventure, Beauty, and Success [Paperback] by Maye Musk, S$24.99
A real-life story of how a 31-year-old single mother rose to become an international supermodel. At 71 now, Maye shares hard-earned wisdom on how one's life choices in every decade of your life can enjoy the pay-off you may be looking for.
Little People, BIG DREAMS: Women in Art by María Isabel Sánchez Vergara, $43.54 (was $46.40)
As part of an empowering series that offers inspiring messages to children and adult alike, this box set on three women from the world of art, Frida Kahlo, Coco Chanel and Audrey Hepburn, will make a wonderful gift to your daughter, niece or art-loving BFF.
I Am Malala: The Girl Who Stood Up for Education and was Shot by the Taliban (Paperback) by Malala Yousafzai, S$18.17
This book requires no introduction. A memoir by the youngest Nobel Prize Winner, Malala, known as the girl who stood up to the Taliban, is a true inspiration to women young and old. A must-read.
3) Support female designers or women-owned small businesses
It is time for women to lift one another. There are enough barriers to entry as it is for womenfolk who are trying to make a name for themselves in businesses. Celebrate your fabulous self together by supporting fellow women.
